Female Orgasms - Having Multiple Orgasms

by 'Giving a Woman Screaming Orgasms' Man

The key to having great sex for a woman is discovering her orgasm and being able to produce multiple orgasms in herself while having sex with her partner...

There are many ways to do the mattress mambo, but which ways give women the best chance to reach orgasm? Emily Dubberley, author of the new video The Lovers' Guide to Sexual Positions, knows exactly how to hit the right spots. Get the lowdown on the most orgasmic positions for women.

Warning: these sexual positions could produce intense multiple orgasms!
The CAT position
You're pretty much guaranteed an orgasm with the coital alignment technique, or CAT position because it stimulates the G-spot and clitoris and even better news - you could have a mutual orgasm! The man rests his full weight on the woman then edges forward so that his pelvis is directly over hers. The woman wraps her legs around him, keeping them straight, then pressing up as he moves backwards so that they're both rocking gently against each other.

As orgasm approaches, don't speed up - just keep gently rocking so that the orgasm comes naturally rather than being 'chased'. This is a truly incredible experience that will bring you and your partner even closer and should result in amazing orgasms for both of you.

This position is extra good if your man is prone to speedy sex, as the CAT will make him take it nice 'n' slow. You could keep going all night in this tantric-style position.

Big 'O' potential: The CAT results in a 50% higher rate of orgasm for women. Plus simultaneous orgasm increases by 45%. Perfect for a lazy Sunday morning special.


Girls on top
This position is often a girl's favourite because it puts the power in your hands! If you're feeling adventurous, try the 'reverse CAT technique' where you lie flat on top and grind away. Lube can make it even better, particularly if you drizzle it over each other's chests so you can sensually slide against each other. Leaning forward makes it better for clitoral stimulation, but leaning back makes it better for G-spot and A-zone access. But be careful not to bend his penis backwards - it hurts!

If you find yourself getting tired or achy, get him to carry some of your weight by holding your round your waist or moving your hips up and down for you. Another tip is to get him to gradually sit up and wrap your legs around his back.

Big 'O' potential: The perfect position for combining orgasmic sex with a leg workout. Perfect!


The Aaaah-spot
The Anterior Fornix zone, known as the A-Zone, is located between a woman's G-spot and her cervix. Found by scientists investigating vaginal dryness in 1996, try feeling it with your fingers first to know where to aim. First of all, feel for the G-spot, which is a spongy mass about a third of the way up. Carry on to the cervix, which feels like a small, round indentation (be careful - it can hurt if you press too hard against it) and then move your fingers back until you're halfway between the two. When you've found it, get him to tickle your A-Zone for great results!


Do the doggy
Doggy position or from behind is one of the favourite positions for women as it gives plenty of scope for playing with your clitoris during sex. For a more intense experience, try spreading your legs really wide. Whether his penis is large or small, spreading legs wider is great for a small guy to feel a lot bigger. If he's larger, closed legs will make it more comfortable for you and stimulate the end of his penis.


Best tip for oral sex
The T-shaped position is best for oral sex. The woman lies flat on her back and the man approaches the clit from the side. Not only does it give him more control and room for tongue or toy action, it's ideal for women who have a very sensitive clitoris as it is easier to avoid the tip and go for the clitoral hood instead. The man's head can rest on the pubic mound giving additional stimulation.


Size matters
If he's small, then the best position is with you in missionary style with your legs up in the air. The man stands up to penetrate. He may have to manoeuvre your body into the right position. This way you get maximum penetration. Alternatively, if he's big try side by side, facing each other with one of your legs in between his legs. This position is made extra sexy as you're face to face for kissing and caressing each other.


Take control
Touching yourself when you're making love is a great way to boost your chances of orgasm. Don't feel embarrassed - a man loves to watch his partner play with herself. It's a great compliment too; you're showing your partner that you're relaxed and comfortable with him. If you're too shy to try just yet, place a pillow underneath your pelvic region when you make love. As well as changing the angle (be careful if he's big as it generally deepens penetration), you can rub your clitoris against the pillow for additional stimulation. And if you're feeling extra brave, use a toy on yourself -and even on him - he'll love it!